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Thursday 30 August 2012

A woman is always a mystery: one must not be fooled by her face and her hearts inspiration.


Sitting in a cafe the other day, I overheard some guys few inches away talk and complain about how their partner would make life difficult for them. Just a couple of them had enough courage to sort matters out while the rest just chose to let go off it. They felt they were too cool to 'discuss' the issues for that matter, and would be better off single. 

Next, I hear about how my own male friends would say, "a woman is the most complicated of God's creations". This, however, holds true. From head to toe, every mesh of a woman speaks differently which makes her eminent and glowy before everything else that exists on the face of this universe. Every woman needs attention, but most detest saying it. Every man needs a faithful woman, but most of them who have one show as if it ain't no big deal. However, the difference is, most content of all women is the one who means the world to one man. 

Heart-rending and fervid mood swings are normal for every woman. Being a man, most of you cannot decrypt her inflammatory phases. Sometimes, it takes it all to please her, and at other times, you got to take it slow. I see and hear guys having a laugh on every second thing a woman does, dismissing that act to be extremely 'typical'. The fact is, they simply fail to understand the thought process behind the action. She may resort to tears as a release for her pent-up frustrations. In such a fragile state, she isn't looking for a trite Mr. Fix-It synopsis of the matter, she's most likely just looking for someone who is willing to validate her feelings and give her the support she needs to solve things on her own. Crying is a foreign concept to most men, and it can be hard to navigate a situation charged with emotion and tears. You'll probably feel like you have no ability to help her snap out of it, but actually you might just be the best person for the job. 

You don't have to conquer the world out there to solve her riddle. The least that need be done is acknowledgement to why she cries easily. With shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world yet gentle to give comfort, she tends to break at the most unreasonable of situations. She reasons, in forms of tears, the rejection that comes her way time and again, sometimes from her own children along with the suffering that she takes. Despite the hardness within her to keep going come whatever, she feels fatigued. Even when she is hurt beyond repair, she unconditionally loves her children under any and all circumstances. She has the strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. The deep felt emotion stirs her hot button inside and streams in form of tears. She has wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths. As a result, standing beside him unfaltering and unconditionally overwhelms her. The tear she sheds is exclusively hers. There's no way she should hesitate to claim ownership of it. 

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides. "The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman's heart." - Josiah G. Holland

 When she loves, she's selfless. Rest assured, she completes a man truly by every sense of the word - "You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, she is beautiful because you love her."

True love is powerful than anything else. It is transforming, righteous, ultimate and eternal. - "Only love of a good woman will make a man question every choice, every action. Only love makes a warrior hesitate for fear that his lady will find him cruel. Only love makes a man both the best he will ever be, and the weakest. Sometimes all in the same moment." -Wicked

"Let us be thankful to people who make us happy. They are the charming gardeners of our souls" -Marcel Proust


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true beauty of a woman is her passion; apparently, cosmetics are easier to buy.


1 comment:

  1. Wonderfully written! An amazing insight into the heart of a woman.

    I'm honored to be the first one to comment on your blog. Keep lighting up the sky with your writing :) Ad Astra!

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